Dating etiquette after second date
Several books were published explaining the rules of etiquette to both genders.
Here are names of some of those: Godey’s Lady Book, Mrs. Humphry, The Laws of Etiquette: or, short rules and reflections for conduct in society, by a gentleman, and Manners and Social Usages.
Beeton’s Book of Household Management, Manners for Men by Mrs. These books explained several rules for social behavior and those in the Victorian times closely practiced them.
Before we delve too deep into white dinner jacket etiquette, it might be helpful for me to explain what a “white dinner jacket” is, how it came about and where you will usually find it.
Another family member had to be present in the room. There was no physical contact between the woman and the gentleman until marriage. Victorian etiquette for men courting dictated that a man could offer the girl his hand if the road was uneven. She could flirt with her fan, as this behavior was within the protocol of accepted behavior. An unmarried girl would never date a man at the night. The dating would firstly begin when the couple would speak to one another.After marriage, the property of the woman was automatically transferred to her husband.The Victorian girls, from the very beginning, were well trained and groomed to become the perfect wives and mothers.Step 2 – engagement After the couple had developed mutual affection, the next step to strengthen their relation was marriage. After getting engaged, the couple could get hold hands in public, go for walks alone, and take unchaperoned rides.The engaged couple was allowed to meet behind closed doors but had to be dutifully separated by nightfall.